Episodes

374
Feb. 25, 2025

Ep #374: A Teen's Guide to Self-Love and Authenticity with Kristi Simons

I sit down with Kristi Simons, a former teacher turned life coach who specializes in helping teens develop emotional intelligence and essential life skills. Through her own journey of self-discovery and transformation, Kristi has gained invaluable...
373
Feb. 18, 2025

Ep #373: Your To-Do List

I dive deep into the psychology behind our to-do lists and shares my insights on how to create a list that truly serves you. Let's explore the emotional relationship we have with our lists and how it impacts our ability to prioritize, delegate, and...
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Feb. 11, 2025

Ep #372: Acknowledging Pain

In this deeply personal and vulnerable episode, I share a raw and unfiltered message that I recently posted in my public Facebook group for school leaders. I dive deep into the struggles that so many principals and administrators face, especially when...
371
Feb. 4, 2025

Ep #371: Blamed the Villain

In this raw and personal episode, I dive into what it feels like to be wrongly accused and labeled as the "bad guy" in leadership. I share my own experiences of being blamed for other people's feelings, decisions, and actions - and how I learned to...
370
Jan. 28, 2025

Ep #370: Embracing Change

In this episode, we'll explore why change is essential and how it can lead to innovation, creativity, and evolution in our schools. I share my own personal journey with change and how I've learned to embrace it rather than resist it.   Get ready...
369
Jan. 21, 2025

Ep #369: No More Sunday Scaries

In this episode, I'm diving deep into the root causes of the Sunday Scaries and offering practical strategies to shift your mindset and approach the week ahead with confidence and clarity. As a school leader, your mental and emotional well-being is...
368
Jan. 14, 2025

Ep #368: The Purpose of Defensiveness

As a principal, it's easy to swing between being too nice and too strict in an attempt to avoid conflict or prove your authority. But what if there was a better way to respond to criticism and lead with confidence? Join me as we unpack the layers of...
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Jan. 7, 2025

Ep #367: Take Shoulds off the Table

The last few years have brought significant shifts in my personal life, and I'm so grateful to have had the support of coaching to navigate the intense emotions and challenges that came with it. Coaching has been an absolute game-changer for me,...
366
Dec. 31, 2024

Ep #366: The Solution Cycle (Back to Basics)

In this powerful episode, I share the game-changing concept of "The Solution Cycle" - a framework that has transformed the way I approach leadership challenges. By shifting your mindset and focusing on generating solutions rather than dwelling on...
365
Dec. 24, 2024

Ep #365: Next Level Results (Back to Basics)

In this episode, I share insights from a recent coaching call with one of my amazing clients who is a first-year principal. Through her example, I explore how to create next level results for your school by focusing on enhancing the quality of the...
364
Dec. 17, 2024

Ep #364: Silencing Overwhelm

I'm here this week to tell you that there is a way to silence the overwhelm - or at least turn down its volume. My guess is that you’re currently trying to outrun the overwhelm by working harder and faster, but the truth is it’s only leading to...
363
Dec. 10, 2024

Ep #363: How The Principal Exchange is Empowering School Leaders with Andra Bostic and Sarah Murphy

I sit down with Andra Bostic and Sarah Murphy, the founders of The Principal Exchange, to discuss how their platform is revolutionizing the way principals access support and resources. Andra and Sarah bring a wealth of experience to the table, having...
363
Dec. 3, 2024

Ep #362: Stress Free Walkthroughs

If you find yourself stressed out about walkthroughs, it's an indication that you have some internal work to do as a principal around your thoughts about yourself and your work. The great news is that when you learn how to create psychological safety...
361
Nov. 26, 2024

Ep #361: Equal Value but Different

“Equal value but different” is a powerful concept that has transformed the way I think about my work as a school leader and my relationships in my personal life. It's the idea that every person has inherent worth and value to offer, even if it...
360
Nov. 19, 2024

Ep #360: Pleasure Is Not Irresponsible

As an educator and school leader, it’s easy to get caught up in the endless demands of the job - pleasing your staff, students, parents, and district, putting out fires, and chasing external metrics of success. We think experiencing pleasure and...
359
Nov. 12, 2024

Ep #359: The Feel Good Goal

Leaders are often obsessed with “doing,” and this approach comes with a certain kind of hustling or forcing energy. People forcefully create results in their lives all the time, but is that the way you want the experience of school leadership to...
358
Nov. 5, 2024

Ep #358: Save Time and Money on Substitute Teacher Recruitment with Nicola Soares

In this episode, I’m joined by Nicola Soares, president of Kelly Education: a company that specializes in providing talent services to school districts across the United States. With a background as a public school social studies teacher, Nicola...
357
Oct. 29, 2024

Ep #357: Retirement Resistance

Many educators struggle with the decision to stay or go, feeling a profound sense of commitment to their work even when it's no longer serving them. That’s why this week, I explore the concept of retirement resistance and how it can keep principals...
356
Oct. 22, 2024

Ep #356: School Scores

Do you ever feel discouraged or distraught by your school's performance score? As a principal, it's easy to take these ratings very personally and let them define your sense of success or failure as a leader. If you find yourself getting caught up in...
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Oct. 15, 2024

Ep #355: Take Control of Your Reputation: PR Strategies for Educational Leaders with Dr. Jamay Fisher

This week, I sit down with Dr. Jamay Fisher who brings a unique perspective to the topic of public image and school leadership. As an academic advisor and branding expert who has worked in both education and politics, Dr. Jamay sheds light on the...
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Oct. 8, 2024

Ep #354: Emotional Regulation

Whether you're in the midst of the fall dip, dealing with a challenging situation, or simply feeling the weight of your responsibilities, empowered school leadership is all about the ability to regulate your emotions. That’s why, this week, I share...
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Oct. 1, 2024

Ep #353: Leader, Teacher, Student

In this episode, I explore the three different hats you wear as a leader: the leader, the teacher, and the student. By understanding and embracing these roles, you can expand your capacity to handle everything that comes your way and inspire others to...
352
Sept. 24, 2024

Ep #352: Overcoming Insufficiency

The fear of insufficiency is a universal emotion that plagues everyone from leaders to students. The good news is that while our brains love to seek evidence for all the ways we’re insufficient in both school leadership and our lives outside of...
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Sept. 17, 2024

Ep #351: How Taking on a New Challenge Will Transform Your Leadership with Wendy Cohen

In this episode, I talk with my long-time client Wendy Cohen, an assistant principal in New York City, about her journey of becoming a runner and how it accelerated her growth as a school leader. Coaching has taught her many lessons that have helped...