Oct. 11, 2025

74. The Power of Pausing: Why Empathy Beats Being Right

Show Notes

The Power of Pausing: Why Empathy Beats Being Right

What if the real strength in teaching isn’t in winning arguments—but in understanding others? 💡

In this thought-provoking episode of the Why Edify Podcast, Jeremy Jorgensen dives into a transformative idea for educators and leaders: the "empathy pause." When tension sparks—in classrooms, meetings, or even at home—what happens when we pause to listen instead of rushing to correct?

Drawing on timeless wisdom from Dale Carnegie and everyday teaching moments, Jeremy explores how a simple phrase—"Help me understand your perspective"—can build trust, disarm conflict, and deepen connection. This is emotional intelligence in action, and it’s how we model the kind of world we want our students to inherit.

✅ If you're a teacher, administrator, or lifelong learner seeking more compassion, clarity, and calm in your work, this episode is for you.

🌀 Reflective journal prompt included

🫶 Practical affirmation for tense moments

🌱 A powerful shift from judgment to understanding

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Takeaways:

- Frustration is common in classrooms and workplaces.

- Defensive reactions can escalate tension rather than resolve it.

- An empathy pause can transform communication dynamics.

- Asking 'help me understand' promotes active listening.

- Understanding others' perspectives is crucial for resolution.

- Empathy does not equate to agreement, but to listening.

- Small phrases can have a significant impact on interactions.

- Recognizing what others are trying to express is key.

- Building trust requires intentional communication strategies.

- Effective conflict resolution starts with empathy.

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