Episodes

June 30, 2025

Ep #392: The Purpose of Conflict

When parents storm into your office demanding that you eliminate all conflict from their child's school experience, they're operating from a place of fierce love and limited perspective. They see their kindergartener struggli...

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June 23, 2025

Ep #391: How School Pulse is Keeping Students Safe Year-Round with Iu…

Disclaimer: Please be advised that this episode contains content related to crisis situations. If these topics are challenging for you, you may wish to skip this episode or seek support. When students are struggling with ever...

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June 16, 2025

Ep #390: The Rage of Injustice

Leadership requires processing both professional and personal experiences, particularly when faced with injustice. As school leaders, we encounter unfairness in various forms - from promotion decisions to resource allocation ...

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June 9, 2025

Ep #389: Why Test Scores Don't Define You as a School Leader

Test scores rolling in can trigger intense emotions and identity crises for school leaders. As principals, we intellectually understand that standardized tests are just one measure of student growth and school success. Yet wh...

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June 2, 2025

Ep #388: Instruction After Testing

Finding balance between fun and structure after end-of-year testing can be a real challenge. As school leaders, we often notice a clear shift in energy, behaviors, and routines once testing concludes, leaving many of us strug...

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May 26, 2025

Ep #387: Tips for Meaningful Year-End Closure

As we reach the end of another school year, I'm focusing on an essential leadership practice that many principals overlook - creating meaningful closure. This process isn't just about completing tasks and checking boxes, it's...

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May 19, 2025

Ep #386: Flow and Focus Hacks to Transform Your Principal Productivit…

In this episode, I sit down with Steven Puri, a fascinating guest who had an extremely successful career in Hollywood, but has traded that in to help remote workers master flow, productivity, and efficiency. Though not my typ...

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May 12, 2025

Ep #385: The Teacher Attachment Cycle: Shifting Parent Expectations

Have you ever faced backlash from parents when announcing teacher changes or reassignments? This is a fascinating dynamic in education that doesn't exist in most other industries - the intense attachment parents develop to sp...

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May 5, 2025

Ep #384: Why School Leaders Gain Weight and How to Lose It with Jena …

Have you ever wondered why so many school leaders gain weight after transitioning from teaching to administration? This week, I sit down with my dear friend and certified life coach Jena Damiani to unpack what we jokingly call the "admin...

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April 28, 2025

Ep #383: Brand New Leaders: What You Need to Know

Are you stepping into your first year as a school principal?    The excitement of landing that leadership position can quickly collide with the overwhelming reality of what the job actually entails. As a new leader, you're not just taking on...

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April 21, 2025

Ep #382: Sick Day Guilt: A Permission Slip for Principals

Are you overcome with guilt whenever you need to take a sick day? And even then, do you try to brush it off, pretend it isn’t happening, and attempt to push through?   This week, I address a profound issue that came up during a recent EPC call...

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April 14, 2025

Ep #381: The Need to Know

Do you ever feel that pang of anxiety when you realize you've missed an important meeting or weren't included in a crucial conversation?   If you’re navigating this tension between wanting to know everything happening in your school and...

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April 7, 2025

Ep #380: Balance School Leadership and Life: The Empowered Principal …

Have you ever felt like you're drowning in the demands of school leadership?   Like you're constantly choosing between being a good leader and having a life outside of school?   You're not alone.   In this week's episode, I sit down...

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March 31, 2025

Ep #379: Raise the Bar

As we enter April and the final season of this school year, this is the perfect opportunity to examine our intentions and how we're showing up in our lives.   Many of us feel stretched too thin—not feeling "good enough" in our various roles as...

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March 24, 2025

Ep #378: Creating Problems vs. Solving Them: A Fresh Approach to Staf…

Do your teachers ever come to you with perceived problems they want your help solving? It's easy to get caught up in trying to solve every issue that comes your way, but what if some of those "problems" aren't really problems at all?   In this...

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March 17, 2025

Ep #377: Times of Uncertainty

As a leadership coach, I've observed various leadership styles and approaches, and I've noticed that many school leaders are feeling distressed, concerned, and angry about the current state of education. The impact of leadership changes on schools,...

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March 10, 2025

Ep #376: People Who Want Conflict

I share an excerpt from my Relationship Mastery program that dives into how to identify and approach people who engage in conflict for their own personal gain. Through my own journey with professional and personal relationships, I've gained valuable...

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March 4, 2025

Ep #375: Your Two Voices

I dive into the concept of the two inner voices we all have - the voice of truth and the voice of fear. Understanding the role and purpose of each voice is crucial for school leaders who want to make aligned decisions and build strong relationships....

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Feb. 25, 2025

Ep #374: A Teen's Guide to Self-Love and Authenticity with Kristi Sim…

I sit down with Kristi Simons, a former teacher turned life coach who specializes in helping teens develop emotional intelligence and essential life skills. Through her own journey of self-discovery and transformation, Kristi has gained invaluable...

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Feb. 18, 2025

Ep #373: Your To-Do List

I dive deep into the psychology behind our to-do lists and shares my insights on how to create a list that truly serves you. Let's explore the emotional relationship we have with our lists and how it impacts our ability to prioritize, delegate, and...

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Feb. 11, 2025

Ep #372: Acknowledging Pain

In this deeply personal and vulnerable episode, I share a raw and unfiltered message that I recently posted in my public Facebook group for school leaders. I dive deep into the struggles that so many principals and administrators face, especially when...

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Feb. 4, 2025

Ep #371: Blamed the Villain

In this raw and personal episode, I dive into what it feels like to be wrongly accused and labeled as the "bad guy" in leadership. I share my own experiences of being blamed for other people's feelings, decisions, and actions - and how I learned to...

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Jan. 28, 2025

Ep #370: Embracing Change

In this episode, we'll explore why change is essential and how it can lead to innovation, creativity, and evolution in our schools. I share my own personal journey with change and how I've learned to embrace it rather than resist it.   Get ready...

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Jan. 21, 2025

Ep #369: No More Sunday Scaries

In this episode, I'm diving deep into the root causes of the Sunday Scaries and offering practical strategies to shift your mindset and approach the week ahead with confidence and clarity. As a school leader, your mental and emotional well-being is...

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